I've managed to give my girlfriend about several hundred thousand yuan intermittently, spending it on things like gadgets, smartphones, and luxury goods. Later, when the industry slumped and I couldn't make money anymore, of course, there were things I didn't handle well. Before she left without a word, I was even out of money for rent, only left with a little Thai baht. Yet, she spent over 8000 yuan on a pair of high heels, which was really exhausting.