"Eating melons: Brother, you can still let go now"

Brother, you can still let go now.

My dear friend, please forgive me for posting your photo. I've been trying to contact you for a month without success. I sincerely hope you see this message. If not, I hope your friends and family can relay it to you, as it concerns your happiness. That's why I've only blurred your eyes, so your acquaintances can recognize you, but strangers cannot.

I also know your girlfriend, Sy Sreymao. On October 24th, you gave her $3,000 to handle marriage paperwork through an agency, right? But what you don't know is that on November 7th, she was still telling me she didn't have a boyfriend. Even after knowing I had a girlfriend, she was upset and even sent me videos calling me "hubby." Her goal was just to get money, but I didn't give her any. I thought the man who used a couple's avatar with her and only followed her on TikTok in October was her boyfriend.

Later, I contacted this man, and he confirmed they were indeed together and he was fully aware of Sy Sreymao's actions. Afterwards, she admitted to these things but also threatened me. However, I won't disclose that man's information as I don't want to cause him trouble.

I only found out about you in May, while Sy Sreymao and I were still not broken up. In April, you were "the other man," but I don't blame you because I know she must not have told you the truth. By August, I was "the other man" again. At that time, she lied to me saying she had broken up with you after you went back to your country, and then she came back to me. Later, I felt something was wrong and broke up with her again. But we kept in touch until November when I finally realized you had already returned by at least September.

Even so, she still wouldn't admit you were her boyfriend. To mock her, I kept calling you "the man in green pants."

Since August, she stubbornly denied having a boyfriend, whether it was her late-night videos playing with a dog on the sofa with a man in the background, or when I personally saw her kissing another man at DotClub on the night of October 26th, or when the KTV hostess said she had a boyfriend in early November but she still frequently went there to drink, or on the morning of November 26th when she sent a video showing you helping her choose clothes on Taobao (Image 7), and later a video of her having dinner at your apartment. No matter how I asked, she never admitted it.

Until the morning of November 27th, after we had an argument, she deleted me from her FB friends. But using an alternate account, I observed that she posted a new video of registering your marriage together—finally making you public. I then went on Telegram to scold her, pointing out that you had already spent money on marriage documents as early as October 24th, yet she still called me "hubby," which was utterly shameless. She immediately blocked me after hearing this.

Clearly, she doesn't truly like you. A woman who truly loves you wouldn't even think about sleeping with other men, let alone flirt with them.

I know you've invested a lot in this marriage and have informed your parents and friends. But if you marry her, with her "as long as no one knows, anything goes" attitude, don't you find that terrifying? Can she remain loyal to you?

You haven't yet brought her back to China for the wedding. It's still not too late to put the brakes on.