No matter whether in the Philippines, Cambodia, or Thailand, paying attention to the following points will generally ensure safety.

First, be low-key, no matter where you are, always be low-key, as the bird that sticks out gets shot.

Second, be friendly. Don't act like a big shot everywhere, thinking you're above everyone else. Realize that you're just a nobody, dependent on others on their land. Be aware of the reality. Being friendly and setting aside racial prejudices when you're abroad can save your life.

Third, don't get involved in bad circles. If you start off associating with the underworld, gamblers, or pimps, your circle is not clean, and you'll likely be the first to run into trouble. If you're out to make money, just focus on making money. Stick to a simple routine between home and work. If you're a homebody, just stay at home honestly. Money comes first, and limit your circle to colleagues only; this way, you're less likely to encounter serious trouble. Kidnappers won't even know you exist, so what would they kidnap you for?

Fourth, hide in plain sight. This involves two aspects: the first is being low-key, as mentioned earlier; the second is that even if you are a high earner with some financial strength, don't flaunt your wealth. Don't show off by buying Alfa Romeos, sports cars, or living in mansions as soon as you get some money. Kidnappers love targets who seem to scream "I am rich." Even if you are wealthy, opt for Toyota, Honda, or Hyundai, and live in a local neighborhood to blend in and truly hide in plain sight.

By maintaining these points, you can at least ensure your survival. As for the rest, leave it to fate.

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